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What is true love?

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I am reading a wonderful book called "Staying in Love for a Lifetime" by Ed Wheat. I wanted to share what I learned this morning about loving . I hope you are as encouraged as I have been:
Real love is not mysterious or irrational.
Real love is not a simple, easy, doing what comes naturally.
Real love is not an uncontrollable feeling.
Real love is not produced by trying to attract it.
I can understand what love is through the Word of God.
I can learn the art of loving.
I can choose to love.
I can produce by giving it first and giving it wisely…
Love recognizes a unique value in the beloved
Love chooses to affirm the value of the beloved always
Love consistently does what is best for the beloved
Love is an active power to be controlled by the will.
Love is always a choice backed up by action.
Love is costly even when giving is pure joy.
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After reading some stories from the Foxe's Book of Martyrs Kayla (11) commented :"Mommy, I think it would be easier to die for Christ than it is to live for Him"

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